Planning a Celebration of Life

Losing a loved one is a difficult emotional experience. However, that does not mean a funeral needs to be a somber event, too. A funeral or memorial service should be a one-of-a-kind celebration and plenty of people would rather be remembered with a party. A celebration of life is that perfect alternative to your traditional funeral.

Everyone has their own unique story. A celebration of life brings friends and family together to share stories about the one they love. And you can honor them with their favorite food, flowers, music, decor and more. A celebration of life can be as simple or grand as you want. But no matter how you do it, this is a great, customized event that is informed by the things that made a person special. Tears and laughter are equally welcome at a celebration of life.

1) Find a Funeral Celebrant

A funeral celebrant is someone who is trained to plan this sort of event and works with families to create a personalized memorial tailored to the beliefs, lifestyle and preferences of the family’s loved one. They know just what to do to create a gathering that feels joyous and memorable. And they are experienced at teasing out the details of a special life, as they have both the skills and the resources to create an event that showcases a loved one’s personality and passions.

2) Choose a Special Place for Event

Many funeral homes have celebration of life centers or large, flexible reception spaces that are easily transformed into a personalized event. However, any location is an option for a celebration of life. When planning a celebration of life, think of somewhere the person loved. This way everyone can wash over the memories while celebrating a life well lived.

3) Consider the Decor

The decisions for a theme and decor can seem endless and there really is no limit. However, it is wise to try to simplify it. Perhaps a remembrance table filled with photos and mementos for people to look at when attending. You simply want it to model the person you are celebrating, so transform that space into whatever you want. It will be memorable no matter what.

4) Think About What People Will Wear

When you are planning a funeral, black is the traditional attire. However, that is not really the case with a celebration of life. The theme of the celebration might dictate what people wear to it. The season and weather can also play a role. When planning, you can even suggest people wear a certain color or outfit type to fit the desired theme. This is perfect in the summer months when shorts and sundresses are in season. But whatever you choose, make sure to inform your guests so they are involved!

5) Plan Food and Drinks

Food and drinks are nearly always at the center of any kind of celebration and a celebration of life is no different. Sharing a meal or raising a glass with family and friends always brings comfort and joy. Depending on how you want to handle it, you can look to catering options or you can ask friends and family to bring food. This is also an aspect where you can theme it following the loved one’s favorite foods. Add a favorite signature drink too!

6) Music Selection

Music is always a great way to set the mood and can help create an inspiring atmosphere. Plus, playing a loved one’s favorite songs or artists can help stir memories and build a connection among the attendees. Fill this spot however you see fit. Perhaps hire a single musician, find a band, or go with a DJ. Whatever feels right for the celebrations. You can even just curate a personalized playlist, which is fun and keeps costs down.

7. Choose an Emcee

A celebration of life can include readings, poems or prayers. However, it is more likely that what you’ll see and hear are guests telling funny stories about happy times or sharing memories. When planning a celebration of life, it is good to assign someone to be the emcee for the event to help keep a loose atmosphere if that is what you are going for. An emcee ensures that everyone is given an opportunity to share their story without any one person dominating the conversation.

8. Order Favors or Keepsakes

Small favors or keepsakes of remembrance are a nice final touch at a personalized celebration of life. You can choose something that was near and dear to the person being celebrated. This kind of little touch can make an event particularly memorable for guests.

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